*Collaborative post.
Whether you are thinking of starting a blog or a YouTube channel, or you’d simply like to start speaking up about issues that matter to you more, you need to get comfortable sharing your voice. Below you’ll find 4 ways you can feel more comfortable sharing your voice:
Speak Slowly And With Purpose
As well as being sure of what it is you’d like to say, make sure you take your time. Take breaths, and don’t rush what you’re saying. Make sure you pronounce each word, and try not to say things that discount the statement you’re trying to make, such as ‘ but I don’t know…’. Avoid filler words too, such as ‘ah..’ and ‘like’.
Practice makes perfect, so practice with the people you’re close to. You could even film yourself making a speech and critique yourself, or ask somebody you trust to help you.
Practice New Habits
Make small changes at a time so they turn into habits. For example, to begin with you could focus on sharing your ideas in meetings. You could also practice by asking questions, and even giving feedback. You’ll be out of your comfort zone at first, but these things really help.
Work On Your Writing Skills
Just like with any other skill, your writing skills will get better the more you practice! Start a blog, or even just a diary.
Become More Assertive
Assertiveness is a great trait to have if you want to share your voice. The infographic below can help you!
credit to STL Training
I used to hate training or having to speak in front of people. As a result I often spoke too fast and stumbled over my own words.
I can relate.
Hey Stella, how are you? Long time no speak! I need to feel more comfortable sharing my voice! Thank you for this post and you are rocking the suit!
I am good thanks. I hope you are well too!
This is what is called true girlpower as well as self-knowledge and self-esteem growth!
Yes Cristina!
Public speaking has never been easy for me. I always get goose pimples when called to speak in a gathering. Your tips are helpful and I need to start following them. Thank you very much.
Glad you like the tips 😊
I’ll keep this in mind. I can be wary of speaking up. But I find as I get older, I worry less what people think.
Yes me too Amber!
Practice new habits is something I can do. Then maybe I will feel more comfortable
Yes just keep practicing Tara.
I have always preferred to stay in the background. And I have always hated the sound of my voice as well as asserting myself so it was hard to use it. I am slowly getting better though. One day at a time.
Yes one day at a time.
I have such a hard time talking 🙁 I was telling my husband last Friday, just how much I have to improve and hone my public speaking skills!!
You will get there. Just keep at it!
These are very great tips. I know the introvert in me can really benefit from these.
Glad you like the tips.
The article posted was very informative and useful. You people are doing a great job. Keep going.
Thanks Anna.
Public speaking has never been one my favorites! I am the type of person that prefers staying in the back 🙂
I can relate 😊
I don’t mind speaking in front of a large group of people I don’t know, but put me in front of a small group of people I do know and NO WAY. Thanks so much for sharing this with us!
Ah ok. It is usually the reverse. Thanks Krysten.
These are some really good tips – especially if you have your own business and need to get a message across or want to do public speaking or youtube – thanks for sharing
Laura x
Thanks Laura x
My biggest challenge would be speaking slowly. I am always excited to share a valid and insightful thought but I come from a family background of fast speakers so it is sometimes difficult to speak slower.
Speaking slowly can be hard for me too!
Speak slowly and with purpose. Yep, I agree with this. Because sometimes, I rush my ideas and I don’t get heard. 🙁
Glad you agree 😊
these are all great places to start for sure. it’s always harder getting started though!
Yes it is.
I think confidence at public speaking comes with practice and having a receptive audience.
I agree!
Love this!!! I started my blog to grow my voice a few years ago! It’s a great way to discovery yourself and get in the practice of sharing. It can be risky for some to share their views and opinions. However through blogging, I’ve become more comfortable putting myself out there and learning that as long as I am ok with what I have to say, then all is well!
Oh good for you Tisha. Good luck with the blog!