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Dating Someone New? These Are the Red Flags Not to Ignore

March 17, 2020 By in Lifestyle Tags: , , , 2 Comments

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When two people meet and fall in love, dating is often the next step they take. However, it is still possible to date someone casually as this has become a norm in the modern days. It is normal to be anxious or tense when dating someone new because of the numerous uncertainties that can happen.

People who are new to relationships usually get a mixed feeling of fear and joy. But amid this confusion, it is crucial to be cautious and vigilant of various red flags that signal future challenges. Shared below are such red flags and what they mean.

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There Are Constant Complications

Coming from different family setups and beliefs can be a constant challenge in a relationship unless you agree to compromise. Some relationships are strangled by this and many more constant challenges such that partners are hardly ever happy. If you cannot find solutions to such problems, then your relationship is in big trouble. Sometimes, it is better to quit early rather than later.

 

Dating a Cheater

Nobody likes to be cheated on in a relationship. Problems start to arise immediately when this happens. The bigger problem is that some people are addicted to infidelity and they cannot stop even when they are caught red-handed. As soon as you realize that this is happening, it is paramount to take it as a red flag. You can forgive one or two times, but when it becomes a habit, you have to think twice. Dating is a great opportunity to know the person you are dealing with before escalating it into something else.

 

No or Poor Communication

Communication is part of a healthy diet in a relationship, whether it is physical or through communication platforms. It does not matter whether you have met at an online dating site like Happymatches or anywhere else but communication runs a relationship. It is a great red flag if both of you have no time to respond to a text, make a call, or even a video chat once in a while. This is even worse if you have nothing to tell each other when you show up for a date.

 

There is Abuse

Abuse in a relationship comes in many ways. Physical abuse is the worst that can happen to you when dating a person. Other forms of abuse include disrespect, being used for personal gain, and many others. When you detect this, always consider working it out first, but if it is persistent, consider quitting as fast as possible.

 

There is No Commitment

There are many things that show no commitment to a relationship. It could be one of the things we have discussed above or many others such as not being responsible and always failing to meet the promises you make to each other, just to mention a few. Ignoring this red flag increases your chances of being sad in the future. So, give it a serious thought to know whether this is the relationship you want not.

 

The Takeaway

Every relationship has some red flags. Some can be ignored or resolved while others are serious. If you see any of these, be sure to give them a good thought and take the right action for your own good.

 

These Top Tips Will Completely Transform Your Dating Life

September 16, 2019 By in Lifestyle Tags: , , , , , 43 Comments

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If you are sick and tired of not finding “the one” or if you feel as though there is something more out there, then these tips should help you to access a whole new world that’s full of dating potential. They will definitely transform your dating life. 

Go Beyond the Bar Scene

You never know when you are going to meet the person of your dreams, so don’t limit yourself to bars. You might meet someone at a fun run, or even when going to a museum. Love has a way of cropping up in the most unlikely of places, so get out there and always make sure that you keep your eyes open.

 

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Let your Friends do the Work

Your friends probably know you more than anyone, so let them do the setup for you. When you do, you will have a higher level of familiarity and comfort, not to mention that there’s a high chance that your date has already been “vetted” to some extent. If your friends are setting you up, then make sure that you don’t put too much pressure on them.  Sometimes there will be chemistry, and other times there won’t and there is nothing wrong with this.

Date your Friends and Transform your Dating Life

Someone in your friend’s circle probably already has similar values to you, and they may also know your background too. There’s a chance that you already feel comfortable with them, and as a lot of people say, friendship really is the foundation for a good relationship. For this reason, it can help to look for someone who you already have that connection with.

Choose a Good Dating Site

The best thing about dating sites is that it gives you the chance to really get to know someone before you commit.  You can list your preferences, and you can also find someone who is able to match your interests too. This will stop you from wasting your time and it will also put less pressure on the situation in general. If you are concerned about listing your status on a dating site because you are technically married but separated, then look into family solicitors and always be honest with the other person right from the get-go.

Focus on First Impressions

First dates can be overwhelming to say the least. For this reason, you need to focus on making a really good impression. Make eye contact, smile and try and pay attention to what the other person is saying. This will help you to know if there is potential for a relationship and it will also help you to know if there is anything that you can do to make that special connection. Sure, nerves can sometimes take over and this is normal, but if you be yourself then this will make the whole process way easier.

Don’t Play it Cool

Sure, playing it cool might sound like a good idea but it’s really not. Playing hard to get or just not acting interested in general won’t be doing you any favours and it may even sabotage your date. Try and focus on being open and welcoming as much as possible.

What do you think of these dating tips? Do you think they will transform your dating life?

Great date ideas you’ve probably never thought of

November 10, 2016 By in Lifestyle Tags: , , , , , , , , , , 42 Comments

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The dating game has it’s pros and its cons. On one hand, it may result in you meeting your soulmate, on the other it may involve awkward moments, small talk and spending a lot of time in high street chain restaurants.

While there is no guide or way to ensure you meet Mr Right rather than Mr ‘Why Did I Swipe Right?’, you can at least guarantee having some fun on your rendezvous. Why slum it at the cinema when you can use dating as a way to experience new things? If your latest fling ends up being ‘The One’, you’ll have some amazing stories to tell the grandkids about when you first started ‘courting’ but if it turns out they were more ‘The One You Couldn’t Make Your Excuses To Leave Fast Enough’ then at least you’ll have a great story for over brunch with your friends.

 

Here are 5 great alternative date ideas that beat heading down to your local Nandos:

 

Be Culture Vultures

There’s a good chance you live within reasonable travelling distance of museums and art galleries. Take advantage of the culture on your doorstep and head to one with your date to experience some art and history while pursuing romance. You’ll get to know someone’s tastes and personality much quicker discussing your opinions on history and art than you would sat in silence together watching the latest blockbuster at the Odeon. The best thing about this sort of date is Museums and galleries tend to be free, so you don’t need to worry about any awkward moments about who foots the bill at the end of the night.

 

Cooking classes

Dates involving food don’t always have to involve a trip to your nearest restaurant. Rather than recreate that famous scene from ‘Lady and the Tramp’ why not try something a little more ‘hands on’ like a cooking class? Learning to cook with a potential love interest is the perfect way to spend a few hours getting to know each other and guarantees you always have something to talk about as you try to master the recipe given to you by your tutor.

The Penny Date

Chances are you’re already aware of The Penny Date after it went viral online last year. Perhaps you’ve rolled your eyes at the concept but let’s give it a chance as while it may be very kitsch, it’s certainly not boring. The idea behind the date plan is simple; ask your date to pick a number between 1 and 20 and then get in the car. Whatever number they pick is the number of times you will flip the coin; heads means a right turn and tails equals left. Every time you stop at the lights (or whatever is suitable) you flip the coin to decide where you go. On the final toss, you’ll have arrived at your destination for the date. It’s exciting, unpredictable and unique. Who knows where you could end up? Hopefully not at the cinema or one of the bland restaurants we’ve been trying to avoid. But even if you do, they do say life is all about the journey, not the destination.

 

Escape Room

Being locked in a room with someone you don’t know that well may seem like the opposite of your idea of a good time but breakout challenges and escape rooms have been the “must do thing” of 2016 for a good reason – they’re so much fun. Think back to the 90s and the days of Crystal Maze and Fort Boyard and remember how much you wanted to be a contestant on those shows? Well now you can – and there’s no better teammate than a date. The idea is simple, you’re locked in a room which tends to have a theme to suit the storyline as to why you’re trapped; you get an hour on the clock to solve riddles, find clues and get the keys and codes required to set yourself free. It’s ideal for finding out how you work together as a duo and guarantees no awkward small talk as you’re far too busy cracking codes. While it’s ideal for most people, maybe give this one a miss if you have a particularly competitive streak – your future partner doesn’t need to see that side of you just yet.

Wine tasting

There’s a reason most dates revolve round meeting in a bar and having a few drinks; alcohol can help calm the nerves, gets you chatting more at ease and makes the whole nerve-wracking ordeal that is a first date go a little smoother. That said, it can be pretty boring bar hopping and you don’t get to find out much about your company for the evening when you’re having to yell over the music. However, there’s no need to go teetotal on dates just yet – try wine tasting instead. You’ll still be able to benefit from a bit of dutch courage and you’ll learn a thing or two about the wine you consume along the way. Just remember to use the spit bucket now and again – there’s a difference between ‘dutch courage’ and ‘drunk and disorderly.’

 

Happy dating!

 

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