Should Photoshopped ‘Beauty’ be Banned?

What does beauty mean to you?

Before I dive right into this topic, quick disclaimer. I sometimes use Lightroom and Photoshop to edit my photos. I never alter my figure or features. All I do with these photo editing tools is to improve the lightening in my photos. So I play around with the exposure, contrast, vibrance and saturation tools in Lightroom. And I mainly use Photoshop to delete names, numbers and other personal information I don’t want showing in my photos. I never use these tools to alter my body and any of my features. Having said that, I do like playing around with filters for dun, especially those on Snapchat.

 

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It’s getting increasingly difficult to tell what real beauty actually means. Women are getting carried away with the by-products of filters and photo editing apps that they’ve lost touch with the beauty that they already are. And by “beauty” I mean the real, unedited, no-filter kind of beauty.

You hardly see pictures on the internet or in your favourite glossy magazines that don’t go through some level of editing or the other. Editing your picture immediately after taking them has turned into second nature for many of us.

 

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More women have had their self-esteem bruised when they see edited pictures of other women online. They no longer see themselves worthy because of the beauty that came through a filter. It sounds ridiculous when you think of it, but it has been causing a lot of damage to women and young girls today.

More women think that they have to go under the knife, get on extreme diets and buy expensive products just to attain that perfect flawless look that they see on social media. They rather put their lives in danger than to learn to love themselves for who they really are.

Fortunately a lot of women are being more conscious of the black hole Photoshop and other photo editing apps and filters are sucking us into. Such women saw that if they didn’t speak up, more women will be in danger. Consequently, they became advocates of banning photoshopped ‘beauty’.

 

Recognizing the true beauty behind the filter

The idea behind photo editing apps may have been a good one – to enhance one’s beauty. But the overdependence on those apps is creating a misconception of what real beauty is.

No one is born with the perfect skin, the perfect figure or the perfect complexion. And beauty is far beyond all those. You are beautiful for simply being you. You are a true beauty and you need to embrace it. The minute you recognize that you’re more beautiful than what any filter will make you, that’s when you’ll be able regain the self-esteem you lost to the pressure that comes from viewing airbrushed or edited photos.

 

 

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So should photoshopped ‘beauty’ be banned?

I don’t believe it should be banned. I don’t think photo editing apps and filters will ever go away for good. But I think we should take these perfect photos we see on social media and on the pages of magazines with a pinch of salt. Don’t take them too seriously because 99.9% of the time, most of these photos have been seriously edited to look perfect.

Many women are being misled and now teenage girls are being affected. It’s disheartening that we are slowly losing our sense of true beauty – the one that is authentic and the one that embraces our imperfections. Instead, women are going through complex and oftentimes life threatening cosmetic procedures just to measure up with the mirage they see when they pop on a filter or have their photos airbrushed.

There’s nothing wrong with imperfection or blemishes. It shows that we are human. We need to learn to fall in love with ourselves and truly appreciate the awesome person that we are. That’s what should shine through every picture we upload. This is how you can become more self-confident and self-assured.

That’s why you need to take a stand and be you. You’re truly a beauty.

 

What do you think of filters and photo editing apps?

 

Affordable Christmas Stocking Fillers

October is almost over and the countdown to Christmas is on! I have started thinking of Christmas as you would have spotted on my Instagram story. Christmas presents have been on mind so I have started shopping for gifts. I am currently grabbing items for stocking fillers. Which is why I am writing this Christmas Stocking Fillers Gift Guide post.

Here are some affordable items you could fill up your stockings with –

 

Ramer Sponges

Ramer Sponges are great items for Stocking Fillers, and there is a Ramer Sponge for everyone. These sponges come in various shapes, sizes and designs. If you are stuck on Christmas Stocking Fillers gift ideas, then you will find these suggestions very useful.

 

 

Ultra Soft Baby Sponge Twin Pack £2.99

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I love the texture of this baby sponge. This would be great in a little one’s stocking. It is very affordable and so useful. The fact that it is a twin pack means you get more value for money too! A couple of these packs will definitively be in some stockings this Christmas. I know a few cuties that would find these sponges very useful.

 

 

Super Soft Body Sponge £2.99

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This Ramer sponge is ideal for travel as it is lightweight and small. I really like the compact size and the mint colour. It feels great on the skin. This would be a perfect Christmas Stocking Filler for kids and young adults.

 

Invigorating Body Sponge £2.99

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This Ramer sponge is one of my favourites. I love the fact that it a firm, lightly exfoliating sponge. The round shape and burgundy colour caught my eye instantly. It would definitely work as a great stocking filler.

 

Ramer Sponges Cleansing Shammy £2.35

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This Cleansing Shammy for sensitive skin would be a great gift for a beauty lover. It gently removes all traces of make-up, leaving your skin feeling soft and clean. I really like this product as a gift idea for a stocking filler. It works so well.

 

Ramer Sponges Performance Sports Towel £11.99

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This Ramer Sponges Performance Sports Towel is a great idea for a stocking filler. I like the fact that it is a large size highly absorbent towel. It is great for gym/fitness lovers. The towels come in different colours – mint, ocean blue, pink and teal.

What do you think of these Ramer Sponges products?

 

 

Kathleen Naturals Tranquil Mini Bubble Bath and Shower Gel £10/50ml

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This Tranquil Fields Bubble Bath and Shower Gel by Kathleen is simply amazing. I love the fragrance and how it feels on my skin. This product left my skin clean, soft and smelling real good.

It is a relaxing bubble bath and shower gel and it would make a nice little gift this Christmas. I adore everything about this product and the size makes it idea for a stocking filler.

 

 

Sanex Zero% Moisturising Sensitive Skin Hand Cream £3.99/75ml

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This unfragranced Moisturising Hand Cream is great for Sensitive skin. It is enriched with natural moisturisers, and contains 0% parabens, 0% colourants, and 0% fragrance. I like that the hand cream is so pure, the whole family can use it. A lovely idea for a stocking filler. Many hands would thank you for this Sanex hand cream.

 

Sanex Zero% Body Moisturiser £5.99/250ml

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Another great idea for a stocking this Christmas is this Sanex unfragranced Body Moisturiseris. This lotion is great for Sensitive skin. It is a quickly absorbing formula, enriched with natural moisturisers. I like the fact that this lotion provides long-lasting moisture and it is suitable for the whole family.

 

 

Palmolive Gourmet Coconut Shower Gel £1.80/250ml

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This Palmolive creamy body wash with Coconut extract leaves the skin moisturised and smelling good. I think it is a great idea for a stocking filler this Christmas. It is very handy and affordable. I am currently using this shower gel now and seriously loving it.

 

Palmolive Luminous Shower Gel £1.80/250ml

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This is another shower gel I really like. It the ultimate body wash with the non-greasy formula, which will leave the skin feeling velvety and soft. I also like the light price tag. I love the simple packaging and the lovely fragrance.

 

This post has proved that you don’t have to spend a fortune on Stocking Fillers. These products are very useful but yet affordable. They are great products for the whole family.

 

Have you started your Christmas shopping? What do you think of these stocking filler ideas?

 

 

*Collaborative post.

My Natural Hair Update

I have been rocking my natural hair for some years now and I am loving it. It took some time to fully transition from my chemical damaged hair to my natural hair now. I didn’t go down the big chop route  and that is partly why it took forever to transition. But I am happy with how my hair is currently looking. There was some hair breakage earlier in the year, thanks to a crotchet braids hairstyle I had on that wasn’t right for my hair. But it is slowly growing back to how it was prior to that and I am hoping to see a significant hair growth before the end of the year. I have so many hairstyles I need to try. I just need my hair to grow some more.

My greatest hair muse is my beautiful daughter. Her hair is hair goals for me. She was born with amazing hair and I have found it very easy to nurture and maintain for her. Her hair reminds me of how my hair was when I was her age. It was natural, soft, long and chemical free. Her hair is one of the reasons why I decided to be free from all hair chemicals and damaging hair weaves. I have never seen any hair so beautiful. This photo does not do her hair justice.

 

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If I could go back in time, I would take better care of my hair. But since I can’t, I have to ensure I right my hair wrongs. So far, it has been a journey I would never forget. It just confirms the saying that whatever you nurture grows and stays healthy.

My hair routine is very simple. I don’t do much with it or to it. I usually have my hair in cornrows and I wear wigs. Sometimes I have my hair braided in big weaves or crotchet braids, which I have now stopped doing because crotchet braids damaged my hair. I think the big fat needles used put too much pressure on the hair. So although it is a quick way to have your hair done, it is not the best for my hair type. For now, I am sticking to simple corn rows style. They suit me and mine. And that is what I have on at the moment.

 

 

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When it comes to hair products, I use a couple of Cantu products. I also use SheaMoisture products. And you can click on the links to read my reviews on the hair products.

Thanks for stopping by.

 

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