Making Sense Of British Culture As A Visitor

If you recently arrive in the UK and you are trying to understand how to fit in better, it might at first seem as though you have a lot of work to do, with regards to the British Culture. There are many aspects of any culture which you will need to try and understand if you are keen to fit in well. And it’s hardly surprising that it will usually take some time to get it down pat. However, by focusing on a few key areas in particular, you should be able to ensure that you find it easier to fit in. And so enjoy your time in Britain all the more – whether you are only staying temporarily, or hoping to remain in the long term.

 

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Language

Even though many people around the world speak English, the truth is that the English which is spoken in one place might well differ profoundly from the English spoken in the language’s motherland. Add to that the fact that even in Britain the language is forever changing, and you can appreciate just how hard it can be to learn how to speak the Brit’s version of modern-day English. If you take a look at this article on 10 Bizarre English Sayings and What They Mean, you will start to see how some of the lesser-known proverbs can easily trip you up. The best advice here is really just to pay close attention to what people are saying, and in time you will find you pick it up. You might even choose to take an evening course in English, especially if your English is currently not quite up to scratch.

 

Humour

One of the first things that many visitors remark on is the strange and unique sense of humour which the British people tend to have. In one sense, this is something that Brits are known for all over the world, and it can be infamously difficult to try to understand why they find certain things funny. Essentially, there is an undercurrent of sarcasm in almost all of the British humour. This is often twinged with an element of dry wit too. It might take some time to learn how to be funny in the British way – but in the meantime, just try to enjoy it. And don’t be surprised if one or two things sound a little strange.

 

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Queueing

Much is said about the British ability to queue, and actually it does turn out to be true that most Brits are concerned with proper queueing technique. Sometimes, a cliche really does fit in with the reality, and this is one of those times. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself committing a queueing sin while you are still getting used to the culture. And try not to be put off if someone chastises you for it. All visitors will find they have to go through this period of difficulty before it becomes second nature to them.

All in all, you should find Britain to be a welcoming and diverse land full of possibilities. In time, you should feel able to feel perfectly at home in these Isles.

What do you think of the British Culture?

 

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Hey Good Friday

Happy Good Friday Folks! I bet everyone is having a good bank holiday. I have been waiting for this bank holiday weekend all month. It is good to have a bit of relaxed time off with the family. Bank holiday or not, I am still working. I am always working but my bank holiday working hours are usually reduced.

My plan for the day is to blog, sleep, relax, eat and merry. I have a few shows to catch up on today. So I will be doing that all weekend.

Here are ways I will be relaxing this lovely bank holiday weekend, and things I will be doing.

 

 

Merrying with The Lakes Gin

 

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I will be chilling with The Lakes Rhubarb and Rosehip Liqueur 70cl. This beautiful pink bottle landed on my doorstep some days ago, and I have been loving the amazing taste. This Lakes Gin comes with a layer of Rhubarb and the fruit of the Rose. The packaging is so beautiful and the taste is divine. I am in love. You can grab a bottle for £27.95.

 

Relaxing with Yankee Candles

 

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I will be relaxing with these amazing Yankee Candles. My favourite is the Spiced White Cocoa Candle. It has a lingering fragrance that smells so sweet. I am also in love with the other 2 candles, especially The Perfect Tree Candle. I got these candles over Christmas and I have been burning them for weeks now. Yankee Candles have a way of relaxing me.

 

Finish the Laundry

 

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I have loads of washing to do, which I plan to finish up in time for our holiday. I have been using this Ariel Gel for some days now, and it has helped a lot. With a 2 kiddies, my washing machine is always running, so products like this are always useful. Wish me luck with the never-ending laundry.

 

What are you up to this lovely Good Friday? Any plans for the bank holiday?

 

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How I Survived Culture Shock in England

I still remember how I struggled with Culture Shock in England when I relocated several years ago. It was tough for the first few months, but then I got over it. I had to anyway. Prior to my moving to England finally, I had been visiting on a yearly basis so I was familiar with the country and its culture to a certain extent. But visiting a country regularly and relocating fully are 2 very different things, as I came to understand. Culture shock affects everyone in different ways. It does not matter whether they don’t travel often or they are regular travellers.

 

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I relocated finally to England in 2008. There was a master degree I had interest in at the University of the West of England (UWE) in Bristol, and so I enrolled. Which is how I got here. Bristol is an amazing city. I had a lovely time studying there, and I really do miss the city. This year marks my tenth anniversary as a UK resident, which is why I felt the need to write this post.

Culture shock was a module I studied in Bristol Business School. Many people are unaware of how different cultures are, and how tricky it can be to embrace a different culture. If you have ever had to relocate, then you would know all about how hard it can be to try to make a life in a different country, as you most likely would have experienced it first-hand.

 

How to Survive Culture Shock in England

Here are a few ways I survived the culture shock in England.

 

Have a good sense of humour

Luckily, I was born with a sense of humour so I didn’t struggle too much with this. I know how to have a good laugh at myself and situations. This trait helped me get over issues quickly and helped me pursue my interests. Taking yourself too seriously in a country like England may not be a wise thing.

 

Embrace the web

One regret I would always have is not starting my blog earlier. I could have started this blog easily in 2008 when I relocated. There was a reliable internet connection. I had no social life and very few friends. And I was bored to death half the time in my student house. I spent most of my free time online doing nothing meaningful. My evenings were usually spent with me on my laptop, checking out cheapest online shopping sitesStarting Fashion and Style Police then would have been a smart way to utilise my time.

 

 

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Fall in love with Tea

I was not a big tea drinker prior to my move to the UK. Coming from a much warmer climate meant it was more chilled drinks for me. But first thing  I noticed about the Brits is how much they love their tea. I am still not a big tea drinker. I prefer a good cup of coffee/cappuccino. But I have fallen in love with tea a bit more since my relocation.

 

Embrace the unpredictable weather

Embracing the unpredictable British weather is one of the first things I struggled with. In the early days, I never knew what to wear. One minute it is warm and sunny, and the next minute it is wet and cold. It is pretty still the same, but I now know not to expect anything from the weather in England.

 

Be wise with your cash

I have always be relatively good with money. But relocation to England made me even better with money. I quickly learnt how to save every extra penny I made, and how not to spend crazily, in order to pay my bills and survive. It taught me to be more responsible and manage my money properly. In my early days in Bristol, I made use of many money transfer companies, as that was the fastest way of receiving and sending money. As an international student, I was only allowed to work 20 hours a week, so money was usually tight. But I remember making the most of those 20 hours allowance.

It is good to know there are now more money transfer companies around. This makes it a lot easier to send more home to loved ones if and when needed. I have friends who send money to Romania regularly thanks to companies like Transfer Rapid. So it is great to know services like this are available for people who are living abroad, away from their family and friends.

 

Have you ever relocated to a different country? How did you handle the culture shock?

 

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