How to care for your hair while you sleep

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We sleep for an average of 8 hours a day and our hair can get caught up as we sleep. If your hair is natural (afro) like mine, you may need to pay a bit more attention to how you care for your hair as you sleep. Here are a few ways to protect your hair while sleeping:

Invest in a silk pillowcase

Investing in a silk pillowcase is one of the most simple ways to take care of your natural hair while sleeping. Silk is a gentle fabric that protects your hair from excessive damage and pulling while you toss and turn as you sleep. Silk pillowcases are also super comfy and they aid in a good night’s sleep, which is another good reason to invest in them. I have quite a few and I can’t imagine not sleeping on a silk pillowcase now.

Use a silk scarf and bonnet

Still on how amazing silk fabric is when it comes to hair care, invest in a couple of silk scarves and bonnets, and your hairline will thank you for it. Wrapping your hair in a silk scarf will keep it moisturised and protected as you sleep. Using a silk scarf, bonnet, and pillowcase at nighttime will do wonders for your hair.

Moisturise your hair before bedtime

It is important you moisturise your hair before you sleep. I usually moisturise my hair with Black Seed Oil and water mixture in a spray bottle just before I wrap it up in my silk scarf and bonnet. This keeps my hair soft and moisturised overnight.

Avoid tight protective styles

Tight protective styles damage hair, especially the hairline. It is best to ensure you avoid hairstyles that put excessive pressure on the hairline, especially when you sleep. Loose styles are best if you prefer not to sleep with your hair down. I prefer putting my hair in loose plaits and leaving them down but wrapped for bedtime.

 

 

 

4 Ways to Handle Trolls as a Blogger

As a blogger, I have had my fair share of dealing with trolls over the last ten years. Trolls are simply very unhappy people who think they should share their nasty thoughts and feelings with others online. The best way to handle them is the same way you handle unpleasant people in real life; you ignore them…

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If you are wondering how to go about dealing with trolls, here are some quick tips you may find pretty handy –

No attention

Attention is a currency which is why we say “pay attention”. I pay no attention to trolls and I just keep doing what I truly enjoy doing. Comments from people who are unsatisfied with their personal lives don’t affect me because I understand the psychology behind trolling. The less you pay attention, the faster the trolls disappear into thin air to find the next space to spew more bitterness. When next you come in contact with a troll, look the other way.

Don’t take it personally

Now, this may be a tricky one at first as I know how easy it is to take things personally when we feel slighted. Having said that, one thing you should always try to remember is that it is never personal. When people are mean, they like to look for an outlet to project all that they have inside of them. Once you understand that, you learn grace, and you let people be people and you don’t take it personally. However, that does not mean you should remain passive. Not taking trolling personally would do wonders for your mental health. Being assertive and paying them no attention (which links back to the first tip) would also help massively.

You cannot please everyone

One thing you need to remember is that you cannot please everybody and you should not even attempt to. It is actually crazy to think you have the capacity to please everybody. There are billions of people on this beautiful planet and you only need a few thousand regular readers to earn a living from your blog. In time, you will find your tribe and your unsatisfied readers would also go on to find the right platform for their reading pleasure. So it is really a win-win situation for all parties involved. Focus on your happy readers.

Use the block button regularly

The block button is my friend on social media and I don’t hesitate to use it. My advice is to block anyone who trolls. There should be no second chances when it comes to dealing with trolls online and in real life. If you don’t like a blog or a blogger, you should really not be on it. Use the block button regularly for your peace of mind, and then you will have one less troll to deal with.

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How do you deal with trolls as a blogger? Do you have any fun experiences to share? Please sound off in the comments section below.

How to Attract More Attention With Stylish and Beautiful Jewelry

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If you’re like most people, you probably have a jewelry box full of pieces you love (or have forgotten you love), but you’re not using them to their full potential because you don’t know how to make the most of them. Perhaps you’re not sure what would look well together, or you’re uncertain as to which items will best meet your taste.

Well, you’re in luck since we’ve compiled a list of helpful jewelry styles and fashion tips and techniques to ensure that your stylish and beautiful jewelry always looks its best and fits your sense of style, personality, and outfit.

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Layer and Stack Rings, Necklaces, or Bangles

Start with something fun: layer or stack your jewelry (rings, necklaces, bangles, and even earrings) in a variety of interesting ways by experimenting with different lengths, forms, textures, and colors.

To bring attention to your face, add necklaces of varying lengths. For example, layer a gorgeous real pearl necklace with a tighter neckline and a longer gold or silver chain underneath. Different forms, colors, and textures will often work well.

When it comes to bracelets and bangles, the options are almost endless, allowing you to create a dazzling arm party as you move. If you wish to mix ear cuffs with other earrings or if you have more than one set of ear piercings, you may even try experimenting with wearing different designs of earrings at the same time.

Layering and stacking are simple; just acquire a variety of necklaces and pendants of all lengths, textures, and styles and put them on in various combinations to see what works. It’s a good idea to write down your favorite combinations so you can go back to them later. The key to successful layering is to keep adding new pieces of jewelry.

Learn When to Stop

Occasionally, too much of a good thing is just that—too much.

If you are attempting to bring attention to your face and neckline by wearing layered necklaces or a statement necklace, you probably don’t need to wear an armful of bangles that are also drawing attention to the arms.

The same goes for necklaces. If you’re sporting a set of statement earrings, it may be best to keep it simple or perhaps skip it altogether. On the other hand, a bold pair of earrings with a matching necklace can sometimes look stunning.

Coco Chanel once said, “Before you leave the house look in the mirror and remove one accessory,” which is good advice if you’ve accessorized excessively. Or not, depending on your preference and the event you’re attending.

Don’t Forget to Wear Earrings

Sometimes, it’s easy to forget to put on a pair of earrings. While they may seem insignificant, they are always visible to the person with whom you are conversing. Selecting earrings that frame your face and play off your hair, eye, and skin color is a must.

If your hair is long, choosing an accessory color or metal finish that will stand out against your hair color is a good idea.

Try Combining Different Metals

Mixing metal colors was formerly considered a fashion faux pas, although it made no logical sense at all.

Fortunately, it is no longer the case, even in the eyes of the fashion police. There is no longer any need to wear only jewelry made of silver, gold, or rose gold. To get this effect, combine necklaces and bangles of contrasting metals, or wear a necklace with a pendant whose color contrasts with the chain it hangs from.

Pick the Centerpiece of Your Jewelry

If you’re getting dressed up for a major occasion, how will you draw people’s attention? Take into consideration concentrating the eye’s attention on the part of your body that you wish to highlight using jewelry designed to do so (such as your neck, ears, hands, etc.).

Wear simple rings and earrings, for instance, if your necklace is a statement piece. Or, you could just skip them entirely if that’s easier. Figure out what you want to be the focus, and make sure your attire and accessories don’t take away from it.

 

 






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