Self-care for the Self Employed

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Self-care is something I have thought a lot about in the last couple of weeks. I even wrote a bit about my struggles to find the time to unwind some days ago. And it is like the universe is trying to tell me something because everywhere I turn, it is a well-being blog post video, or podcast. I find it very hard to remember to care for myself because I am busy caring for everyone and everything else. But I had a reality check some days ago, and I have decided to focus on my well-being a lot more in order to get things done effectively and to be in the right frame of mind.

A happy, healthy person is a go-getter, but it can be very tricky to care for yourself when you are self-employed. When you work for yourself, from home, you will likely find it so hard to switch off. I know I do. I find it hard to get my mind off my work. I find myself working every spare moment I get, even late in the evenings and weekends. And when I am not working, I am thinking about what I need to do. But I have now realised I am doing myself a disservice by not relaxing. So I have decided to take action. Here are some ways I will be looking after me some more:

 

Exercise

My daily steps target is 10,000. Some days I am close to hitting my target, I exceed the target on few days, but most days I struggle to get past 8,000 steps. I will continue to aim to hit my daily target of 10,000 steps. Going for long walks and jogging helps me hit the easily so I will be doing more of that when I can.

Apart from daily steps, I will also continue my Fitness Blender workout on YouTube. The feeling after a good work out is heavenly, no wonder many are addicted to working out. Besides the amazing feeling and what it does to my body, I am more productive after a good work out session or after a good jog.

Many self-employed people work from home, and hardly get the time to go out, which is so bad for their health. The first step in self-care is to have daily exercise, and get out of the house some more.

 

Diet

Sometimes I can work for 4 hours straight without stopping to take a drink of water. Many times, I skip a meal while working. This is sad but it is the reality for many self-employed people. The hustle is real, and it is a jungle out there, but food and water should not be forgotten because of work. Our diet plays a major role in our health and state of mind, so we all have to pay attention to it. Eating small portions of food and drinking regularly is the way forward.

 

Regular Breaks

Taking regular breaks while working is needed. Usually, I find myself working on the couch for hours at a stretch with no breaks. This is horrible for my health and productivity. I find that when I do take regular breaks, I achieve a lot more and I feel better too. So I could write a post for an hour, then do some household chores for 20 minutes that involves moving around the house, and then send some emails for another 30 minutes. Regular breaks with some activity helps greatly.

 

Beauty Sleep

I have written a few times about the importance of having our beauty sleep, but I need to take my own advice a bit more. I don’t sleep as many hours as I should, and that has to change. A good night sleep almost guarantees a good day, so it is important we get sleep for as many hours as we need to be productive.

Having power naps during the day also work for some but it doesn’t for me. It makes me feel weird for a good few hours when I wake from a power nap, so I only have 1 if I had no bad night, up with the kids, and so on.

 

Schedule Some ‘Me’ Time

Scheduling some ‘me’ time is so important for our well-being and I rarely schedule time just for myself, but going forward, I am going to start scheduling some time regularly just for myself. We all need some time to cool off and recharge our batteries, doing what we love to do.

 

How are you? How do you look after yourself?

 

What is in my Spring/Summer Bag?

I see a lot of these ‘What is in your bag’ kind of posts on blogs and vlogs, but I have never written one until now. With the transition or supposed transition to spring, I feel inspired to share more weather appropriate blog posts, to get me in the mood for spring/summer. Winter went on for way too long.

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I had the pleasure of receiving a summer box from the lovely people at Bonprix, and I can’t wait to make the most of the contents. In the box were the following:

 

A Bonprix Floral Kaftan Top

This floral top, I will be making the most of once the weather gets warmer, and when next I go on holiday. Have a beach holiday planned in my head for the year, and I can picture myself rocking this beautiful Kaftan over a bikini or with a pair of leggings/shorts. Let’s see how the holiday plan goes…

 

Pineapple Cup

This is my first pineapple cup ever, and I like it. Perfect for summer and the holidays. A stylish way to stay hydrated. I love it!

 

Beach Ball

My kids are going to love chasing this ball about. Some fun outdoor time awaits us.

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Flower Headband

I am loving this flower headband a lot. It looks amazing paired with the floral Kaftan. I am looking forward to rocking this beauty.

 

Sun Lotion

Sun Lotion is a necessity for all of us, so this pocket-size Nivea Sun Lotion SPF 30 will come in very handy.

 

SPF Lip Balm

I have started using the Palmer’s Cocoa Butter Formula Lip Balm SPF 15 already and I LOVE it. I love having lip balms on my bedside table because I use them quite a lot, and this mositurises my lips perfectly and smells amazing too.

 

Personalised Tote Bag

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I am so into personalised items for my blog so it is no brainer, that this is my favourite item from the spring/summer box. I was still drooling over my personalised tshirt, only for this to arrive. I love the red and white, and can’t wait to take this beauty on holiday with me. I can picture myself stuffing this tote bag with all my holiday essentials.

What do you think of these items? What do you have in your spring/summer bag? Do tell in the comment section below, let’s chat.

Thanks for reading and have a good time wherever you are.

 

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Fashion Essentials: Hosting a Party

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Before you even think about hosting a party, there is a lot for you to consider, with the first being what type of party you want to host. As weird as it may sound, there are a surprising number of ways you can choose to go with your event, some of them more conventional and family friendly than others.
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Dinner Party

This type of social gathering is one that will be familiar to many as it is probably one of the most common next to special occasions. A lot of the time hosts will take a more formal approach, and will provide a home cooked meal in which the guests are expected to dress smart-casual, and make polite conversation with other guests. There is however a more informal variation, which is known as a ‘potluck’; here your guests bring their own dish and you enjoy a buffet type feast at the party.
If you’re unsure of how to style your outfit for this occasion, why not stick to a simple day dress. Choose one with soft hues and delicate curves, and accompany with a pair of low heeled court shoes, using minimal accessories to finish the piece off stylishly.
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Casino Themed Party

A firm favourite for party organisers is a themed event, with one of the most common themes being casinos. Part of the reason themed parties are so popular is because they give guests an excuse to dress up, and with a dress code associated with casinos what better excuse for playing dress up. You can incorporate a décor of red, white, black, and green, matching the colours of classic games such as roulette and poker. You can play casino online at Betway to add an extra dimension to your party, so that you and your guests can hold a high stakes tournament.
Another luxury of this theme is that you have a diverse wardrobe to consider: whether you want to recapture the elegance of old-fashioned 1920s mobster type casinos, or whether you want to go with the delicate sophistication of more contemporary establishments. If you go with the 1920s detailing, dresses with tassels similar to the flapper girl style are key to your entire ensemble, as too are beaded and feathered headdresses. Alternatively, a little black dress or cocktail dress layered with jewellery for that added wow factor, should do the trick for the modern-day look. The key here is to make it look effortlessly glamorous.
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Tea Party/Afternoon Tea

Tea parties are not just a thing in Wonderland, they are actually a very real type of social affair that is widely practised across the UK and America. Traditionally this was a ladies only event, with the men choosing to meet in the drawing-room or go out, however, times have changed and it is more than acceptable to have both sexes present at your gathering. These affairs tend to be very formal, and are all about the prestige and finery you have to display; this is definitely the time to bring out your best crockery.
Putting together an outfit for this can be tough, but if you want to embrace the fashion of the time, then a floral vintage style piece with some pumps and a 1940s hairdo will ooze retro chic.
Which is your favourite party theme? Sound off in the comment section.
Thanks for reading.
 
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